Bridal Shower Invitations and Hosting FAQ

Throwing a bridal shower but not sure what to do? We have the answers! A bridal shower is about pampering the bride to be while having a fun, relaxing time with her favorite ladies! As the host of the party, look for some guidance below.

1. Who hosts the Bridal Shower?

The maid of honor or bridesmaids will usually host the bridal shower. Although, it's not uncommon for a sister, aunt, or even a close friend to host.

2. What kind of Bridal Shower should we have?

As the host, you can decide what kind of party to throw, and the theme is up to you. Whether you choose to host something casual such as a beach theme or a more formal sit down tea party, be sure it is something that represents the bride. If you are not sure, you can always ask the bride what kind of shower she would like too.

3. When should the Bridal Shower be held?

It is custom to coordinate with the bride on a date that is suitable for her. Typically a bridal shower should be held about two weeks to two months before the wedding.

4. When to send out Bridal Shower invitations?

Once you have set a date, plan on mailing out the invitations 4 to 6 weeks before the shower.

5. Who should be invited to the Bridal Shower?

As the host, choose a set number of guests you're comfortable inviting. Also, talk with the bride about who you should include. Typically you would only invite guests who will also receive invitations to the wedding. If it is a surprise bridal shower, a good idea would be to go to the bride's mom for help with the guest list.

6. Who pays for the Bridal Shower?

Whoever is hosting the party is responsible for the cost of the shower. The shower is to honor and celebrate the bride. The host typically pays for all expenses.

7. What are some Bridal Shower games and activities?

There are many ways to keep guests entertained at a bridal shower. A few ideas of some Bridal Shower games and activities are:

Madlibs provide not only entertain the guests but give the bride a priceless keepsake for the day.

Have a guestbook or everyone to sign and be sure they include their favorite memory with the bride!

Play the game what's in your purse.

Make a wedding dress out of toilet paper.

Playing trivia about the bride's life.

Give the bride-to-be some marriage advice using our Words of Wisdom Cards

8. What to do the day of the shower at a home?

If you choose to throw a bridal shower at someone's home, it's best to prepare early to avoid the last-minute rushing before the guests arrive. It may be a good idea to get help from the bridesmaids or others. Some things to keep in mind when prepping for the day:

Set up gift opening area, scissors, trash bag, notepad, pen

Prepare food

Set up decorations, flowers, etc.

Create a sitting area

Have activities ready

9. What do we need to include on the Bridal Shower Invitations?

Be sure to inform your guests that it is a bridal shower and who the lucky girl is. Include the date, time, and location of the party along with the address. Lastly, add the host's name and when to RSVP. Don't forget to mention where the bride is registered. Your invitations should reflect what kind of theme you have planned.

10. What are some ways to word the Bridal Shower Invitations

Be creative with the wording, perhaps adding a fun line about the bride or the couple, or a playful rhyme. It can be fun to come up with something that matches the bride's personality or shower theme.